SOUL MATES UNLIMITED® Jewish Matchmaking Service

Judith Gottesman, Matchmaker and Dating Coach for Singles in the San Francisco Bay Area, San Diego, Orange County, Los Angeles, Sacramento, Portland, Seattle, Hawaii, Las Vegas, Arizona, and Beyond

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New York Times interview

San Diego Jewish World article about finding love during Pesach, by Judith Gottesman, MSW, Professional Matchmaker

Los Angeles Jewish Journal Interview with Judith Gottesman, Professional Matchmaker

Story featuring Judith in L'Chaim San Diego Magazine

California Magazine (UC Berkeley Alumni) Interviews Judith Gottesman

Fox 5 San Diego Interview with Judith Gottesman

NPR Interview with Judith Gottesman

Judith Gottesman interviewed on Stanford Radio

Judith Gottesman on Online Dating panel

Matchmaker Judith Gottesman interviewed on Blog Talk Radio

June 2014 OC Jewish Life Story Including Judith Gottesman, Professional Matchmaker

June 2014 OC Jewish Life Interview with Judith Gottesman, Professional Matchmaker

San Diego Jewish Journal Interview with Judith Gottesman, Professional Matchmaker, May 2014

JWeekly Interview with Judith Gottesman, Professional Matchmaker

Jewish Woman Magazine Interview with Judith Gottesman, Professional Matchmaker

Jewish Journal Interview with Judith Gottesman, Professional Matchmaker

Jewish Life Interview with Judith Gottesman, Professional Matchmaker

San Diego Jewish Journal Interview with Judith Gottesman, Professional Matchmaker, February 2010



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The ultimate in personalized matchmaking! You are personally, individually matched by Judith.
(Other companies have people matching you who've never even spoken with you, or with your potential matches.)

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Judith Gottesman, MSW
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Watch Judith’s FAQ Videos

What Is a Matchmaker?   2:37
Why Hire a Matchmaker?   2:19
It’s Not About the Numbers   2:08
Isn’t Love Just About Fate?   2:00
What’s the Best Age to Use a Matchmaker?   2:35


 Testimonials for Judith’s Matchmaking and Date Coaching Services:

I will not hesitate to refer any of my Jewish friends who are single your way. You are outstanding at what you do. Thank you.

— S.T. in Los Angeles

No one cares more about helping people than Judith. She helped me meet my wife, through utmost dedication and care.

— Gil Hanoch in La Jolla 

You are doing an incredible job and I’m extremely happy I finally hired a matchmaker. I’m really enjoying the matchmaking process!

— D.K. in Los Angeles
I’m very grateful for Judith’s matchmaking. She takes her time and the matches have been spot on in terms of personality, background, education, & world view. Like all matchmaking, the final step is the chemistry between people but Judith makes that much more probable. She also doesn't give up. I signed up several years ago, and my work has been hectic, but she sticks with you in finding a mate.

— S.R. in Santa Clara
You're wonderful, Judith. I was amazed. She’s exactly the kind of woman I wanted. It was an excellent match. Thank you.

— Tom Yellen, 80, in Valencia
Your service really has been the only successful match out of all the ones I've tried thus far and God bless you for your work. It’s amazing! Thank you!

— T.B. in Beverly Hills
My marriage ended and I found myself back in the dating world after 20 years. I sought advice from Judith and it was spot on. She helped me navigate which dates were successful and which wouldn't pan out. Judith got me to think about my happiness and what I was seeking in a mate. I was encouraged to make good decisions along the dating process.

Judith’s advice gave me confidence to venture into a scene that was very foreign to me. I'd encourage anyone to use her dating coach services, and, today I can say that I’m in a relationship and very happy. I’m glad I sought her professional help along the way.

— Scott Dunbar, 44, in San Francisco
I hadn't heard from Judith in ages. Out of the blue, Judith called and said "How'd you like to meet your soul mate? She’s smart and beautiful." She was working as a psychologist in Montreal and I was a busy medical resident in New York so we wouldn't have met if not for Judith’s introduction. We've been married since 1998 and have 2 beautiful children. I am so grateful to Judith for bringing me my soul mate.

— Mike in New York
Thank you, Judith! He was well worth the wait. We are forever grateful.

— S.J. in Orange County

Judith gives great advice and is a fantastic dating coach. She helped me...and I saw positive results right away!

— Isaac S. in Brooklyn, NY

We spoke, went out, and with all that said, fell in love, and were married. It was all thanks to Judith and let me tell you, I was skeptical at first, since years of trying other ways didn't work. She truly made the match worth every penny. I couldn't be happier and more in love with my beautiful wife and “yes,” we even have a child. If I wouldn't have contacted Judith, my life would be very different. I wanted to thank Judith for the time and persistence to find me the right person.

— Gideon S. in San Diego

Thanks for introducing me to one of the most impressive women I've ever met & one who’s totally committed to mutually important goals. Great job, Judith!

— N.L. in La Jolla

Judith puts great personal effort into getting to know each individual client. She uses her knowledge and her excellent instinct to find potential matches. She set me up with two meetings and one of those worked out into a relationship.

I think there’s a tremendous advantage to her service. She is looking for your soul mate, not a date for the evening. If there’s no one that’s suitable, she saves me time and possibly a lot of grief. I have confidence in meeting anyone Judith would feel is right for me. When Judith calls, I listen.

— B.B. in S.F. Bay Area

Judith met my future husband, Steve, and knew we were a match. Her intuition was incredible. She noticed details we had in common others wouldn't have thought about. She suggested he call me, but he didn't call right away, so Judith followed up and gently persuaded him to be sure he made the call. Am I ever grateful she did! He was indeed my soul mate. If it were not for Judith, I’m certain our paths would never have crossed, as, at the time, I lived in San Diego & Steve lived in Menlo Park, about 9 hours apart. We married in 2002 and just gave birth to our first child. Thank you, Judith, for helping us find each other!

— Lisa in Chicago

Dear Judith, I just met M tonight and it’s UNCANNY how much we have in common! I look forward to seeing him again and I wanted to thank you for bringing him into my life!! Please feel free to use any part of my e-mail and my entire name, if you'd like.  I know you're really trying on my behalf and I appreciate all you do!

— Warmly, Leslie Zimmer (in Los Angeles)

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Judith would love to be your matchmaker so please contact her today for more information.  She also recommends you supplement your search with Internet dating sites such as Jdate. Click here to join for free.

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Read Judith's NYTimes interview

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 Hear Judith’s interview on the UC Berkeley podcast The Bell Curve about seniors and online dating:

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 Listen to Judith’s NPR Radio Interview with Judith Gottesman: What's A Yenta? Interview: What’s A Yenta?

Judith Gottesman helps love-seeking Jews in California find their soul mates. I asked if she ever gets called a yenta. "Yes," she told me... [read the interview transcript on NPR’s website]


 Hear Judith’s KZSU Stanford Radio interview on Matchmaking & the Jewish Holiday of Love: